Friday, October 29, 2010

flirtatious is being gender bias??

Read an entree: pelik tak kalau orang perempuan ngurat

i felt the urge to write an entry from my perspective....

i never gave gender bias much thought, as i thought its has been a yesterday news~history.... Because in today's world, questioning things under the name of gender might trigger some defensive and offensive remarks...

So i believe flirting should not be gender bias, because saying only guys are entitled to flirt is like saying the women should stay at home and cook....

i dont think flirting can cause a woman's 'harga diri' to be ruined... flirting is just grabbing somebody attention, i mean if you like a guy is there anything wrong in giving urself a luck??? rather than letting it go. For those who strongly believe in fate and jodoh sorry to burst your bubble, but opportunity doesn't come knocking twice babeyh.

Plus flirting is nooot selling urself!! it's like promoting urself... you don't lose neither body nor soul just pushing urself to be notice by that someone....

and may i add, d only reason girls are letting themselves become baby factories, is purely base on blind love and no brains to think better for themselves. (at least use a condom dumb-dumb!!) and female flirting is not one of those factor that increase in baby factories~ because flirting does not define their brain nor how naive/dumb a person is. Also again, allow me to add, these occurrence is also due to the super unnecessary sensitivity by the society who refuse to talk about sex, to educate d young ones about sex, about pregnancies.. hello????

in conclusion; let them flirt, as long as they know how 2 care for themselves...

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